Even if the cause is purely physical, they can interpret their man’s flaccid response as a sign that he no longer finds them attractive.
A pattern is emerging, and it starts with my dick and the bad messaging in our society that I have somehow gotten into my psyche (and perhaps more importantly, permeating the psyches of potential long term mates) about my ‘performance’ abilities.
And once you see what they are, your ideas about what constitutes true, fulfilling intimacy may likely change forever.
DISCLAIMER: at the risk of sounding self-serving, I am clinically impotent and don’t pretend to be any great lover.
While not at all a scientific study, I’ve observed that a woman’s age can have a huge impact on how she wants and expresses intimacy.
Generally speaking, it seems that women of childbearing years put a much higher premium on intercourse.